Ladies, not every Man is after what you think is so great. He may not want to sleep with you because he would actually like to get to know you first. Some Men know the difference between dating and courting and will actually court you if the dating went well. Just like all women are […]
All fish are not the same, maybe you should change the bait! Read More »
I think this is, on the surface, an easy question if we lived in a perfect society. If that were the case, that answer would be; it should not matter who their friends are and I am good with it… If you are in a healthy loving, strong relationship, there is trust, respect and love
How do you feel about your mate having friends of the opposite sex? Read More »
How many times have you spoken to someone about a situation that you could actually help them with and all you get is “I know, I know.” As a response? Why does it seem that when you have information, skills, and the ability to help someone, they tend to blow you off as if you
Knowing is not the same as doing. Read More »
It is so interesting to talk to people. You will hear all types of information; goals, dreams, fears, interests, etc… When it comes down to working with and interacting with people, I suggest that you truly listen closely to what they DO! They will tell you all kinds of things, with the greatest of intentions,
Listen closely to what they DO! Read More »
I have a “10 ft” rule that guides many of my decisions and actions. You may ask well Leonard, what is this nefarious rule? Well I am glad you asked. The “10 ft” rule explained. Let’s say that you are trapped on an island and the only way to escape is to jump a 10
Toxic!Taboo!Dangerous!No!Nada!Run Forest Run!Don’t do it!Are you freaking serious?Oh it is not THAT good! They open way too many doors that all lead to very dark paths. Don’t walk away, run!!!
Relationships at work. Read More »
Parents, especially those of you with grown A kids, let these adults learn to be adults. Do not take their learning experiences away from them, otherwise they will be handicapped, ill equipped for life and co-dependent on someone or thing. We tend to make the mistake of working hard so that our kids don’t have
Let them grow up (Helicopter…) Read More »
Oh my, how many times have I heard this, or some variation of it… “Girl, I need a real…” “A real N would know how to do…” Really? If that is what you want, truly, then understand what comes with that request. Know that a Man; responsible, respectful, loving, kind and about his business, in
“I want a real N-word!” Read More »
This was one of the initial questions posed to me when I was kicking the blog/podcast idea around. It went something like this… “should a mother kick their kid out of the house but allow their husband to stay for the same violation?” My response to this is possibly. A grown A man is held
Husband and Child accused of the same violation… Read More »
To start, lets level-set; Enable: give (someone or something) the authority or means to do something. Examples of enabling include: Giving money to an addict, gambler, or debtor Repairing common property that an addict broke Lying to an employer to cover up absenteeism for someone who is habitually tardy Fulfilling to others instead of allowing
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