Ladies, not every Man is after what you think is so great. He may not want to sleep with you because he would actually like to get to know you first. Some Men know the difference between dating and courting and will actually court you if the dating went well. Just like all women are not the same, neither are Men, quit with the projections of your past “experiences”, “intuition” or whatever you want to call it, if you don’t know, ask. If you are not sure, ask. If it is unsatisfactory, either check yourself or move TFO.
Chivalry, integrity, respect and love are not hard to find. They may not always be wrapped in the 6’3″ frame with a 6-pack, nice car and a 6-figure income. If you are having issues finding, keeping or attracting a “Good” man, maybe some self-evaluation is due, along with priority adjustments.
Gentlemen, not every woman is after your money or things. She may not want to sleep with you after you spend a little time and money on her because she values her body and her personal beliefs. There are many ladies that want to have a special relationship with a person before they share their bodies with them, some even wait till marriage, what a concept. The point is that whatever the case is, she does not owe you that because you took her to dinner, movies, or bought her kids some shoes, etc… It is her choice. Guys, please note that if your top 5 criteria have looks, bra size, butt and whether or not she “services” your needs, you are most likely going to get what you pay for… Cute does not equal trust worthy, caring, intelligent, etc… know the game and play the right one. Party Girl/Boy may be fun for the weekend, but hell for the long term. This is not always the case, but I would put money on this being the high probability result.
This also applies to those who chose to play all sides and entertain opposite and same sex, it is still the same. If you are looking for someone long term, look for those things that actually have true value and not just superficial. Think of it as an investment. Do you due diligence, research, check it out, place value on the process… this could be a lifetime investment!