Oh my, how many times have I heard this, or some variation of it… “Girl, I need a real…” “A real N would know how to do…”
Really? If that is what you want, truly, then understand what comes with that request. Know that a Man; responsible, respectful, loving, kind and about his business, in most cases, does not prescribe to this term. So, when you get one that slaps you around, messes around, couldn’t care less about your feelings, you and, if you have any, your kids, remember you asked for it.
Think about it, it is like asking for a Scorpion, because you like the flare of the stinger and the allure of the danger, only to complain when you are the one stung.
GOHWTBS!