“Quit Blaming the Girlfriend!”

This is the first of my posts and it is to give you the background on the name of my blog. I’ve had the honor of having very enlightening conversations with a variety of people from all walks of life. It has been my experience that there is a common trait among them all. We tend to make things more complicated than they need to be and often miss the real issue that should be addressed. For example, and arguments sake; a married man is out doing more than what he should be doing. He has a girlfriend and has not told her that he is married. She believes that she is the one. The Mrs. finds out about the girlfriend and heads directly to her for a confrontation. HOLD UP! if the girlfriend knew that the man was married, because we all know that there are trifling heifers out there that will do that to another Sister without a thought, then she had it coming. In this situation, it is not that case. It is not the girlfriend’s fault, so the issue is with the Man, not the girlfriend. So “Quit blaming the Girlfriend!”

A number of issues and topics will be addressed. Sit down, strap in and hold on… the ride will get bumpy, but if nothing else, it will be entertaining!