Parents, especially those of you with grown A kids, let these adults learn to be adults. Do not take their learning experiences away from them, otherwise they will be handicapped, ill equipped for life and co-dependent on someone or thing. We tend to make the mistake of working hard so that our kids don’t have to struggle like we did. No one wants to see their child struggle, hurt or anything of that nature. We must not rob our children of the learning that comes with failing, it prepares them for life and all of the hurt that it will bring. You can be there for them, love them and help them, just don’t do it for them, or remove the consequences of their actions. Let them learn while they have someone who cares about them who can guide them through. We all know that life is cruel and respects no one.
Might want to refer to the Enabling post.